A Life-Changing Experience: My Boudoir Journey
| A Life-Changing Experience: My Boudoir Journey by Janel Loy
We are thrilled to introduce Janel Loy, one of our incredible clients and a true advocate for self-love and confidence, as our guest blogger to share her inspiring boudoir journey.
I have always struggled with my self-esteem and confidence, and as a mama to two young daughters, it’s crucial for me to lead by example. I want them to understand how important it is to see ourselves in a positive light, especially in a society flooded with images of what women “should” look like. The truth? If we don’t fit into that mold, it doesn't mean we aren’t beautiful.
My journey began unexpectedly. I attended the Open House for Monica Grimes Portrait Design, completely unsure about booking a session. I didn’t think I was ready, but just being at the open house I left feeling like a different woman and had booked my first session!
When I saw my photos for the first time, I was amazed! I couldn’t believe I was looking at pictures of myself. Sometimes, when I glance at my photos, the feeling returns—how could that beautiful woman in the pictures be me? I cried and exclaimed, “Oh wow!” repeatedly!
In the 10 months following my first session, I ended up booking three more, and I’m currently preparing for my fourth to celebrate the anniversary of my first experience.
There are still days when I let the world's opinions of beauty creep in, but I’ve learned to focus on the aspects of myself that I love instead of fixating on what I wish was different about my body.
As someone who never considered herself beautiful, everything changed with that first session. I no longer look in the mirror and only see flaws. Instead, I’m learning to accept compliments as genuine, where before I used to think they were forced or just people being polite. Now? I accept them with a smile and gratitude.
When I expected to leave my first session feeling pretty, I thought that feeling would fade. To my surprise, it has only grown stronger with each session. Sure, I still feel a bit nervous beforehand—it's natural to get in my own head and start doubting myself while getting ready. But once I arrive at the studio and experience the hair and makeup, and begin selecting my outfits, I forget about my rolls, stretch marks, and insecurities. I simply enjoy the entire experience!
One particular set that made me both excited and nervous ended up being my favorite of all the sessions I’ve done. I realized that I need someone to push me out of my comfort zone because, otherwise, I likely won’t take that step on my own. The guidance and direction I received made all the difference.
If you are even considering doing a boudoir session, I urge you to go for it! You will not regret it—not even for a second. This journey has been life-changing for me, and I wholeheartedly believe it can be for you, too! Embrace the opportunity to see yourself as the beautiful, empowered woman you truly are.
